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Originally Posted by bloom3
michele, i am so sorry for what you are going thru. your boyfriend is treating you really, really poorly. first, he shouldn't be "telling you" to bring his wallet to him. it's fine to ask though. the honking--that's just rude. kicking you out of bed is nuts. if he's angry he should sleep elsewhere. you are allowing a ton of crap. is he an alcoholic or drug addict? have you ever thought of going to CODA or Al-Anon? i think it might be really helpful in learning how to stand up for yourself and set appropriate boundaries. also, it would provide you with support locally if you don't have much.  |
He's not an alcoholic, and no drug use. I do stick up for myself. That is why he is aldo angery at me. I don't just let anyone walk all over me. A lot of the problems that we have are issues that come from his past. He was cheated on before with an ex. Jerry accuses me sometimes of cheating on him. I have never cheated on him. This has caused Jerry a lot of anger, and I can tell that it really hurts him. I have told him that he needs to go to therapy and get over it. He also has issues with his parents. He doesn't trust anyone because of this. So that comes into play with our relationship.