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Originally Posted by Persey
this kind of family background is good at least it hold me together as an individual who know how to be polite during a certain time and rude in other LOL...
i have 2 faces or more... ppl never able to read my real feeling... except my parents who i cracked my mask 2 years ago, showing me who i really am.. because i had enough w them... if im not happy i show them im not hapy... which ifeel better later... but... again dad start yelling his lungs all time ...
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that reading of your family background may be more fictional than real
in reality the negativity of the family environment may be what makes you feel like you would fall apart if you didn't "have" *them* to keep you together
it's like the mafia--you pay them protection money to keep vandals away from your store, the vandals being the mafia themselves