miss c, yes the breaks enable me to come back into my adult mind...but once i get back in the room i normally feel the flood of emotions rush to the surfave again and all those pysvhic aches and pains vegin and i find myself travelling back to that childs mind...its not the adult that has a problem..so i just allow my mind to be where it must be to heal...but I find the break from all the regression relaxing and as T says..its the work we do here that will enable the adult you to grow stronger and strOnger...so the feelings of wanting to Be wrapped up in T are natural for the work that goes on...so as i too go back to T today, I will wave goodbye to the adult me again as I knock at T's door...and know at least its the adult that takes the child me to T..