No offense taken. She is seeking help. Way too early to tell if it will help. I don't get on here enough. I show up when things are bad. I am pretty much isolated from everyone I could talk to (read: "We" never want to do anything, so we have no friends.)

I am sad to say when it happened I snapped. She had just needled me about something else, was interrupting me while I was doing another chore, and I couldn't keep my thoughts to myself. We aren't speaking.

The depression is destroying our marriage. It is hanging by one cute little thread. When she is in an episode she can't see what it's doing. Why doesn't she apologize during an level period though?