What progress Tree! Your eyes have been opened......... You know, my husband and I have been together for 18 years. I was healing the whole time. My husband has a really strong personality and it took me probably a decade or more to really become conscious of all the little things that he dominated and I just let him. I really didn't see any problem with any of it until my eyes opened more and more with my healing. In my situation my husband was not trying to be mean EVER. He just had a strong personality and in a vacuum he was going to fill up the space until I demanded more.
You can get through this Tree. You have done so much healing. You WILL find your way and you WILL make your life to your liking...........
To Tree's empowerment