Identity issues - hmmmm- well yes, that is part of DID ... and yes, I get it too... very big hugs!!! My alter Mick does not think she is me at all - and is very confused as to how she and I can be "one". And there are times when I will switch too much and not be able to fully stay co-conscious and end up hearing myself from a distance or watching "me" be very confused looking around the bedroom trying to figure out where the alter is or who they are. It is no fun for us either.