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Yes and well it has been awhile science we be with a chocen partner. But when we first got together it did happen a couple of times. We later found out it was the entince good emotions that bought the others out. What we had to do is first by ourselves exsplane to the second party that when that action was done with a person of choice that it could be very good and loving between the two that really love each other. And that it was not ment to harm her. This may take some time cause remember this was a totally new exsperence for her with a positve person in your life for something that has always been bad for her. She is dealing with the conflicted emotions of situation. when thhis happen we asked the alter to wright down or even do so verbally exspaine why the situation was same then different. This will take time but no you are not the only one to go through this PM me if you would like to talk more about it. good luck and we hope she gets better soon.
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson .gif "Boy Angel")
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