I just had a quick read of the new posts here and going to bed after a long day, yet I just want to write for now that you are both - GARDEN and VICKIESPATH - amazing women. You are strong and brave and you question things - which personally I respect.

You are both much older than me and I find you both to be remarkable. Mainly for going out of the comfort zone. I know that your generation was raised differently to mine (no bad intentions in writing this) - my generation was almost raised to question and go to therapy...

Any way - I believe in love and friendship and we all need others. I am happy this site offers this in such a genuin way. Much love xx