Thread: What do I do?
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Old Jan 04, 2010, 09:18 PM
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If you love him then perhaps working things out is an option that you should explore, but trust is a major player in any relationship.
If you did go back to him would you put 'conditions' on the relationship, would you be able to forgive (I don't think you can ever trully forget).

On the other side I have recently split with my other half (he is now in a new relationship - perhaps it was going on before he broke it off with me, I don't think I'll ever know) and same as you the thought of going out with a stranger - even thinking about it makes me break out in a cold sweat. It's a very scary prospect. Give your self more time to find who you are and what you want out of life.

Therapy and this forum has been a life saver for me. Keep posting your thoughts and hopefully it will be become clearer to you as to what you really want to do
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