Different drugs work differantly on differant people, you should (if only life really worked as it should) be able to find something that works for you without a ton of side effects. I agree with TheByzantine find a good phychiatrist that you trust (takes more than one visit for trust to kick in) and start looking for a medication to help you. Do you have a therapist? The reason I ask is that my therapist has helped me more than durgs ever have, but that has take a very long time.