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Find something that you enjoy doing that you can have access to that is social. It doesn't have to be purely social like a bar, it could be an activity. Then just enjoy yourself, talk to people meet people. From there its a lot easier to meet people because you have a social network and community, and it will eventually sort itself out.
You can never go looking for love, you just have to happen upon it ya know? But that doesn't mean you can't put yourself in the ball park.
Take this with a grain of salt, I'm a 19 year old who honestly has only had 1 relationship. But I never went looking for it, it just happened upon me (we both played drums).
I also am shy, but I find that if you have something you are passionate about, and you go places where you are with like minded people, you automatically have something to talk about and it makes meeting anyone a lot easier. Some hobbies just have universal languages ect.
Good luck with your journey mate!
-Bias
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From the Movie the Longest Yard:
Caretaker: [ introducing himself to Crewe] Whatever your pleasure, I can facilitate. You need weed, you need meth- hey, you need Prozac, I'm your man. I know how you white boys always deal with that depression. I mean me personally, I don't understand what you white boys are all depressed about. Hey, you're white! Smile!
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