((((((My friends )))))) Thanks- I think with my husband, I just have stopped doing what I used to do- arguing, explaining, defending my choice to go to therapy or yoga or socialize and go out as much as I do and it took time, but now HE wants to do all this stuff. I had a sneaking suspicion that there was some jealousy behind it and he wanted to participate and make some friends and go out. He says he is working on making some new friends. Its good, he is well liked and has a lot to offer.

I think I will check out Anne Lamott. Hmmm....reading something that wasnt written for my 5 yo....interesting idea.....

MUE- Your ex sounds like a real piece of work, but about covering things that happened during the week- that is what I almost always start out with but with the idea in mind that I am going deeper with this. Where do my reactions come from? Why did this or that trigger something in me or remind me of my childhood pain or confusion? That is where I am at- I have done so much work on the here and now and staying in the here and now instead of connecting it to my history. I believe that if I dont make and effort to do that, Im going to stay stuck.

Miss C- LOL! I am SO trying to get my H and I to do yoga together! LOL! And he HAS expressed an interest. But it has to be a certain kind of class. Im going today at 4:30 to a class I think he might like. It is an 8 week beginnner series. And the time is perfect! Before the dinner witching hour in my house....I'll be home by 6 to feed the masses.....
I really would love for he and I to do this together, but it cant be too heady.....My last class that I liked was mostly meditaiton and breathing (Kundini yoga) but the instructor was channeling (for a moment) an ancient yogi and I dont think this is for my husband.....yet (LOL!)

So what will you do together with your husband? What are your other ideas? (I could use some ideas, too)