I aggre, Dogwood, although I can also understand about the sideeffects. Right now, the idea is going to sound scarier than the real sideeffects are likely to be, though they can be uncomfortable for some people. You will never know until you try, and you may have to try several different things. Please don't beat yourself up about blowing on your son. Both of you have problems that are hard for others to bear, as well as yourselves. take care of yourself, dear. HUggs.