Hi again Isabella!

Im glad you managed to talk things over and state clearly what you needed (regarding changes to be made). It can be hard to be assertive like that..so good for you As to acting like everything is normal....dont act too much will you? He must accept that everything's NOT normal (for now), and what he did is not okay..

Anyway, sorry - Im in no position to be a relationship counsellor!!

In your other post you said: "I think if I got back to my old priorities: school, my friends, reading.... that I would feel more self-confident".
That sounds really positive. If those are whats important to you, do you think you will be able to stick with them, & look after yourself no matter what happens with relationships?

I must say, there's a calmness in the way you are writing, which is good to hear,

Best Wishes


Matt C