Guys, from this thread I have witnessed that we go on about 'Negativity' but just stop and think...When you have experienced and you know that another person is a jackass then if you say 'I never want to meet this guy' are you being negative or realisitic? Isn't it realistic to keep away from an annoying jerk and be with friendly people or is it another example of negativity? I think we use the word 'Negative' more than we really should... When you say No to certain things you arent necessarily always Negative...Infact one of the reasons why we are depressed is cos others have labelled the word 'Negative' on our foreheads when all we have tried to do is be more individual than conform to things which the 'cool' people approve of...