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Old Jan 05, 2010, 06:54 PM
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Impatient,
Yours is a most excellent post on the topic.
Thank you for a detailed explaination of the problem stated in a logical manner.

Unfortunately, I'm not baffeled about why people who are aware of the problem aren't posting. It's very plain to see why people would steer clear from this post if they think differently than the "group think" that's going on here.

Just look at the bashing that's gone on for calling attention to a *possible* problem for the OP; to expressions of concern for, and well wishes to the OP; and to what *many* believe to be a very real breach of ethics in a professional setting. Look at the twisting of words, and the misreading of posts that are patently clear to anyone who *wants* to read what's been written and hear what's being said.

And the OP lost out because of the defenses she, and others, put up. The walls.

Cooler heads *may* have led to a more rational discussion of this very serious matter A much more reasonable outcome could have prevailed as a result. Especially for her.
But, that requires the ability to hold back reactions, and objectively access what's being said in a rational manner.
And that was *not* done here at all.

That's the real pity here.
In *my* opinion.

Peace!
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Thanks for this!
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