You know, when I was young(er) it was very clear to me what a 'good girlfriend' is - for me, then, a good girlfriend was a girl who supprts her bf, cares for him, loves him, shares in his dreams, point of views and desires, has fun with him and is faithful, there for him when he needs her and also has her own interests and friends, wishes and drives.

As I grew up (older) - this has not really changed for me. My view is still the same. BUT - I learnt that for different people a 'good girlfriend' means different things. Some will tell you that a good girlfriend cooks for her man everyday, some will say she accepts him as he is, even at the expense of herself... I do not agree with that but I know that so many people see this in so many ways and are happy. Its all about matching with someone who sees it as you do.

I guess the bottom line is - what is a good girlfriend in your eyes?

Maybe after you figure this out you should ask him on how he sees a good girlfriend generally and then see if the two ways of thinking (looking at things) matches?

Take care xx

p.s. I also learnt that for some people 'good' is never 'good enough' - and if you feel that whatever you do, how ever much you give, or what ever you try is not good enough for him - you need to remember - that you are good enough as you are!! and he has a problem