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Originally Posted by ECHOES
I think we also gravitate to what is familiar, so we keep ending up in familiar experiences even though we don't want to. Feeling a bit unfamiliar can be a good clue that you aren't travelling down a road you don't want to be on. Good thing is, we can turn back at any point when we recognize where we are or where we are headed.
Sannah, thanks for your 5 steps. They are very clear and concise and helpful.
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Gravitating to what is familiar is exactly why I missed my husband so much after this whole ordeal. I wanted the security of familiarity, even though I had so many barriers in place with him as well. Even with those limitations, I was still much more comfortable with him...as screwed up and dysfunctional as that sounds.