Thank you all for your advice. I have talked to my girlfriend very straight forward. I told her exactly how that kiss made me feel. I mean I told her EXACTLY how it made me feel. Yet she still had the same response...it is what it is....all I can say is I cant go back...you just need to get over it. So in my own way I got over it. I broke up with her. I cant feel like a pointless piece of space and be happy. I am very hurt still but it seems like im hurting in a different way now. Now I know I have done nothing wrong...she brought it on herself. But im still sad that this had to come to an end. Im not exactly sure what is going to become of our friendship but I hope somewhere along the line we can be friends. She was never this uncaring when we were just friends. We just didnt work out...thats understandable right? I mean its not like I expected us to last forever. Im okay with knowing it just didnt work. You have to find things you can deal with in a relationship, things you can put up with even if you dont agree. But this was like crossing a line of those things...not her kissing that girl, that didnt cross the line...the fact she had no remorse, no shame, no care at all of what it made me feel...thats what crossed the line.
Sorry for going on and on...I just wanted to update you all.
Thanks again for the advice.
-Megan-