Velcro,

You are such a caring person to be so concerned about your t. But i believe your t would not want you to be so distressed. Try to remember that your t is capable of dealing with her emotions of grief. She is well trained in this area, and she will be able to take care of herself, just as she supports her patients in times of their distress. I know you feel guilty when you think about talking about your own issues, since you know your t is grieving. It could be, though, that in her time of grief, it might help her to be able to focus on something else, and in helping others, it may also help her.