Kimmy ~
I am sorry you are going thru all this also. I cant even imagine having a mother like that as mine was so loving to me.

Going along the lines of what Wisewoman said.... would you be able to get a court appointed liason( i think that is the term) to do the trasfering and arrangements for you between you and your mom?This way your family wont have to be involved.OR even a friend. I hate seeing her manipulate you guys like this. Its obsurd and just unjustifiable!I know you have to honor the granparents right too see the little man. Just trying to find a way that you dont have to handle the situation anymore than you already do. Maybe talk to your T about it and see if he knows the legal side of any of this. Just a though hon. I wish you peace and I will be thinking of you.

Safe Hugz~
Bethy