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Originally Posted by iGottaBme
It is easy to blame or scapegoat an alcoholic because they are so deserving.
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The truth is that she blamed and scapegoated me. I was supposedly the biggest problem in the family. I know now of course that this is not uncommon where there is a much bigger problem that no one wants to deal with.
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However, everyone has a place in the dance...I think that your T is trying to get you to see how everyone participated in your situation.
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My sense of it is still that she was trying to get me to see more of my own part in it. But I think I am misunderstanding what that means. I think there may be some black and white thinking happening and she is trying to point that out. As I said, I'll just have to ask her.
Thanks for your reply
