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Old Jan 07, 2010, 02:40 PM
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I didn't know it at the time. But I didn't love myself for my inner qualities while going w/ my boyfriend. Our relationship was great for 3 yrs. then he decided to break up, I was devastated & could not understand. I went into a hell that was a horror. I was great when I had his love, & nothing w/ out him. Plz don't make the mistake I did. Living your life through another person.
I am my own person now!

After a lot of hard work- learning skills we offer here CBT & DBT, therapy, (I thank God for my wonderful therapists! ) meds, and time I made it!
I can be truly happy by myself, I don't *need* a guy or anyone else.
It's good now, it's all good!

With Much Love,
Holmes