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Jan 07, 2010, 02:45 PM
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Member Since: Feb 2009
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 12,269
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I agree with the others. I'm also a believer in being civil or friends with exes, except in cases of spousal abuse. Even if he truly does have these disorders, you still shouldn't take him back. Being mentall ill doesn't mean you can abuse and beat up your spouse. I agree with you, I think he's a master manipulator, especially by the way he gets disability while working under the table. If I were you, I would give the disability office a call and anonymously blow the whistle on him - that's fraud. Please don't under any circumstances reconcile. Have you testified against him yet for this spousal abuse - he probably hoping you'll back out of testifying. I'm wondering if you might be having co-dependancy issues? Please take care and be safe. I don't think you should talk to him anymore.
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