@ Sanityseeker first of all thanks for appreciating my point of view ... I agree with you that there are instances where we do tend to get negative... You are absolutely right when you say that you are negative when you think that you are useless and have nothing special in you cos you are DEFINITELY not useless and if you take a closer look I am sure you will find that you are just as special as everyone else perhaps even more... Cheers! and have a lovely day...