Velcro- I think what you said in your last post struck a chord with me. I think I would also feel sad and worried for T. And I think that it does have to do with our wonderful attachment to someone who cares for us no matter what we say or do and the prospect of losing T. But I can relate to fighting the attachment, too. I have a fear of it, too. That I will become attached and vulnerable and get fatally wounded.

Sometimes it seems like the gap between securely attached and insecurely attached is miles and mile wide.......and how to reach across that gap?