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Old Jan 07, 2010, 10:27 PM
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Yes, this guy needs to be stopped. But I have learned something from these kinds of situations. A lot of times when a girl is harrassed she will talk about it and then suddenly say "it is my fault". I always that they meant the rape/and or harrassment. This didn't make sense because no one asks to be raped or harassed. I now realise that what they must have meant was that if they didn't turn the criminal in, he is now free to rape /harass again. Makes sense that they would feel guilty because they could have put a stop to him and all the other girls would not have had to be traumatized like this. That sure is a heavy burden to carry around for the rest of one's life. That is definately insentive to do the right thing for sure.