Hi Lilly after having read your post, I must honestly say that the way you were describing youre sagas, I almost felt every impact of your pain as i have been combatting many simmilar issues my self well over a decade. But trust me talking to your Therapist you will eventually consoul to the benefits and rewards no matter how lame or trivial you think your issues may be to you,but the whole aspect in talkin is to desensitize and lessen your grief (which can be so cruel to sensitive people like us) and I am addement your T will not look at you with a critical eye or judge you...You must remember that most therapist specialize inthese fields for a reason to give there outmost professional best in enhancing ones better living.open up to your T and be as sincere to yourself and no matter how trivial you think it is ,These issues are medical condition no diffrent to if we had a condition say for example diabetes that it needs to be addressed.Please Take care and take the plunge to open up and be as open and concise as you can with Therapists and as well as talkin to compassionate people.Cheers Bluzman