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Old Jan 08, 2010, 11:37 AM
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Originally Posted by bloom3 View Post
i think you should tell him that if he ever says or does anything like this again you will report him for sexual harassment. hopefully, that will shut him up. then, ignore and avoid him and if he does do anything again after warning him then definitely tell your boss and report him. don't make an empty threat to report him though. you have to follow thru. personally, i'd just go ahead and report him now.

if you like your job otherwise then i think it would be better to deal with this than to run away. what nf said is very true. he will continue to do this if he isn't stopped. he needs to know this isn't acceptable behavior. i am really sorry you are the one who has to deal with this but yeah better you than some poor girl who doesn't have any boundaries at all and gets molested.
Sorry, but I disagree with you bloom3. I think she should file a complain and not talk to him directly....It's safer....I'm sure he does that with others too....then he doesn't know who has complained about him and he will behave well....
good luck girl and be brave....he's nobody....plus....escaping from the situation won't help....what if you find another job and another A.H. makes your life miserable there....so, it's better to learn how to deal with this kind of situations.....