Still waiting but nothing. Thanks for giving me options to look at. If she's busy I understand completely. All I ask is that she send me a message somehow saying that she wants to talk or for me not to worry. Not hearing anything screames I don't wanna talk to you or I don't care.

If she has her own issues that she is absorbed in then I need to know that too don't I? The last of "maybe she feels bad about the she has been acting and doesn't know what to say" ia a possibility. The thing is she knows how I am hurting so I would think she would say SOMETHING just to ease things a little.

She is Norsk and her english is pretty good. She's learned alot. The problem isn't so much talking in Norsk for me it is understanding. So for basic stuff it's ok if she talks a little slower. Most of the time it's not working for me. I do understand that she may need to express herself in Norsk and she knows that is ok and I will be listening really hard. Like I am waiting to now.

Time....I have that and I just have to wait.
Thanks for caring Wendy.
Hugs,
Heidu

When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us.- Alexander Graham Bell