I was gobsmacked when I read what your mum says to you...mine says exactly the same thing - word for word!! I too don't remember, have had flashbacks that are incomplete and sometimes incomprehensible for else but a feeling. Have tried to talk to mum, but get the same response you do. There are so many secrets in my family, its hard to figure out which relate to me. Keep searching, inside and out. I hope you find your answers.

kp