HMMMM. CK, is your friend from your homeland? I'm wondering, maybe she doens't want to seem like she's chasing after you. I mean it's dumb, friends should be able to be friends whether they belong to the same sex or not, but sometimes everyone else doesn't see things that way. It's unfortunate, but it might be why she has been letting you make the contacts. Huggs, and I really hope that things start looking up, friend.