Hey TayQuincy... it does seem like it was really sudden and unexpected that this support person is leaving. You have every right in the world to feel sad, angry, frustrated, scared, and anything else you might feel. This is someone who by your own admission is closer to you than your actual T and we all know how traumatic it is whene stop the T-client relationship especially when it's unexpected. You say you'll pretend you're happy for her... it's okay to really actually be happy for her but really upset and sad at the same time. This is completely normal and will be excellent for you to discuss with her during your wrap-up. And please remember that her leaving has nothing to do with you personally. It's not that she doesn't love working with you but maybe she has an ill family member or maybe she found a job elsewhere that's going to make it easier for her to take care of her family. It's not because she's running away from you or any other clients. Relax the best you can until you meet with her (way easier said than done... I get that). If you need to, write a letter to her to give it at your last meeting. Take good care TayQuincy! I know this is so difficult but you will get through this. Hang tough!!
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