I'm with Perna on this one.

The thing is that any woman who is a sex therapist & who is working with a male patient should not be dressing in any manner that anything can be seen. Women have turtle neck sweaters & high collar shirts & the ability to wear pants & not skirts/dresses.

It's important to dress appropriately for the situation & it's obvious that she isn't doint that in the first place.

Not sure how to take the other things......but I think many times we need to listen to our gut feelings. I believe that you do need therapy as what you are dealing with is an issue that you don't need to be arrested for......but you need a therapist that will really work on your issues.

Running by her what you posted here might bring up an interesting conversation that might shed more light on your gut feeling.