Hi, I need help. I had a lovely, kind, sexy and loving girlfriend who I started seeing Jan of last year and whom I would do anything for. At the time she was a size 14. She has been affected by a great many things in her life and has always felt almost alone. We saw each other as much as we could but there was always things standing in the way...I cant go into what but sufficed to say we loved each other very much and I loved her as a peron and the way she looked. I told hr this everyime I saw her.... A bout a year ago now she started losing weight. A lot of weight. She over exercises and eats hardly nothing knowing exactly how many calories are in everything. I dont know girly stuff but she is now sub size 8 the last time I saw her - she now wears childrens clothes. She has very little self worth but to me she is the world. Over the last 6 months I have seen her very little, each time I did I got a warning not to mention her weight she knows she has gone to far. We have always talked alot but seen each other less and less. About 2 month ago she split up with me and to b quite honest I actd quite freaky, doing alot more harm than good and putting extra pressure on her. She tells me she just needs to be left alone. This was 2 months ago. I am so concerned about her. She always believed she had nearl no one and I fear she is really going to hurt herself. I must have caused this as she was ok before and if she wants me out of her life than I will do it but I love her too much to let her hurt herself. Please. Should I leave her alone??
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