The truth is I have never known anyone as lazy as my son in my whole life. He does absolutely "NOTHING".... I am surprised he can even feed himself......Guess hunger drives him to eat....

Not crying .. I was that stay home mom....... House was always full of neighbor's kids.... sleep overs.......I was always available........ He was never neglected. He was always well taken care of and loved...........

Maybe because I never felt "loved" growing up I over did it...... When I failed, I failed alone... When I screwed up, I paid the consequences....Nobody around to help or encourage or teach.... pretty much you make your bed you lay in it.. or something like that...............Never had anyone I could count on. Has always been, me, myself and I.............So all that I lacked I guess I over did for my kids....Which apparently was a mistake........

But all was well with AJ that is until the divorce.............our life was like a see/saw and aj was in the middle which balanced the family... when divorced, AJ's dad got off the see/saw and AJ fell off.......guess he is still searching for that that balance........:**(