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(JD) · Jan 09, 2010, 11:18 PM

Well I would hope your youth church person wouldn't do that! Goodness what a thing to say. Was he hitting on you too? That's just so not right to say as support. Why would he even insert himself into that scenario? Not sure he's a good one to talk with...

Why not contact a rape crisis line or center 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) and see what support they can give you. I'm sorry the cops there are so insensitive....did you go to their supervisor and complain? No, there's no evidence at this point (unless you kept your clothes and didn't wash them, like Monica.) But you can file a complain against the guy.

Have you talked with him about it? If not, why not? Confront him since you see him around anyway. See if he thinks it was just a joke, or if he seriously thought you were on board with it. IDK it's a thought. Ask your fill-in therapist what he/she thinks.

Taking action, advocating for yourself if you can, will help you.