No - (are they their feelings. Are they their feelings about you. Are they telling you what to do - no one tells you what to do - The can only suggest or they feel you two are not compatiable and they are suggeting you change T.
A T is there for you - you tell them the situation. The clarify it professional and bounce it back to you in a clear explantion, of which most often you already know - But are confused and need help understand.