I am so glad to read about these threads. My 8 year old boy asked my husband if he would be his daddy. I'm not sure what or how i feel about that. Having a degree in social work it rubs me the wrong way ""dual relationships" or something like that. But this is our family not a profession.

My husband is ok with the responsibility. I told him he would be taking on the trust pact. We only let those closet to us in our inner circle of trust. My husband of course is in it. But not in it like a dad, ya know.

I will talk to my T about this also, but just knowing that you guys have experienced the same situation takes a huge weight of my brain. Thx

((((((((((((((((((HONEY))))))))))))))))))))))))

My peeps want to get to know you and your system more. TTYL