Can someone give me some advice on how not to feel jealousy when my fiancee is affectionate (hugging, caressing, patting belly) towards her male relatives or her close male friends. I don't mind that she be like this with females; she has the softest of hands, and the thought and/or witnessing of her hands touching other males (as mentioned) has me uncomfortable. I can only imagine how they are enjoying her touch, even if it is just a display of affection. I would appreciate any kind, thoughtful advice on this, because I do not want these feelings of jealousy anymore; I just don't know how to get rid of them. I have told her about how I feel, and she just says that I need not to feel that; she is Hispanic, and it may be cultural, I don't know. I am not Hispanic. Help!