Hi vicki, I know how you feel about people going away. I struggle when my therapist goes away and often find that I have to count the days till she returns. And when she goes on holiday I feel like getting really angry and feel abandoned that she would go off to have a good time and leave me behind. Im trying to learn how to beleive that she will return and still feel the same about me. The truth is she always does retun and always feels the same.

But in a way its worse for you guys as you seem to have a lot of people go at the one time but I suspect its coincidence and not becasue of what anyone has to say.

And vicki, it would not matter what you say, i wouldnt go anywhere. Im not saying I would have the answers, but I am saying Im willing to listen to how you feel and I will stay around. No one can make me go away and what you say will only make me want to stay more........ you are worth listening to.

So take your time, take a big deep breath and when you are ready I and lots of other people here will always be willing to listen and happy to stick around.

Do you know why that is? Its becasue you are just lovely vicki, so to is W I.