Okay my bf who I've only seen for about 2 weeks said that I was such a narcissist, but at the time he said it I didn't know what it meant. So I just smiled and walked on, we were at the mall. Then the next day I asked my friend what it meant and she told me that it means your into yourself andad,ire the way you look. I don't understand why it's such a bad thing to have high self esteem I mean you would think it would be a good thing to be proud of yourself. I just don't understand what's wrong with loving yourself. I can't help it that I'm pretty and have a nice body, why not admire that?