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Originally Posted by perpetuallysad
Aw, I feel for you. Let's look at it positively and say he does feel the chemistry but he feels awkward as well. Even if you are in your thirties, each of you certainly has some fear of rejection. Maybe he didn't think you kissed him back during the new year's kiss and was just surprised when you kissed him when getting out of the car?
For him to continuously contact you, it seems he must think something of you. As far as not calling, emailing may feel "safer" for him, maybe this way he won't feel rejection as easily as if you wouldn't answer the phone when he called. I wouldn't give up and would certainly try to give him a chance. Good luck!
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Thanks "Perpetuallysad" for your kind words.....Nice to think this way.....I wasn't ready for the first kiss at all....and my sister just turned back to hug me....and she was waiting looking at us to hug me....so, I was so uncomfortable....you are right probably, he felt the same....but then in the car, I showed him that I'm interested and he had enough time to do something.....
Unfortunately, I can't justify the whole story except being rejected.....and well....there is nothing to do with it....just time will show.....
thanks again....I hope what you said is the reality
