((((Myzen))))) there are different types, and levels of "love." IMO there was something that you did love about your first wife, at least, for you at the time you knew it as "love." It might not have been. Maybe, if these thoughts continue, you could quietly compare your first wife with the second, and how it's different love now?

IMO your daughter DOES want a relationship. She showed this by searching you out. She probably has really low self esteem, so anything contact you can give her with positive regard, will be absorbed!

Inability to trust IS an ongoing issue for those whose trust was betrayed. The younger you were, the worse it can be, because your whole life and how to learned and all the relationships you forged afterwards, all were based upon this hurt.

BTW those who have had abortions often have psychological problems because of it. sigh.

TC