I think its a myth that men DONT associate emotions with sex. I think that there is a difference in HOW we associate the two different from how men do. Women often look for sex as a sign of approval or a sign that a guy really likes them. A lot of women feel that they have to do those things to get a guy to really stick with them. I think that guys do associate emotions with sex but have been taught that sex is just sex so they don't admit it or talk about it. My boyfriend and I have had the best sex ever without really doing anything different - its only better because we both care about each other. So I guess what I'm trying to say is that women usually have to like the guy and therefore, thats why emotions are associated with sex; whereas men can have sex just to do it without the emotions but that doesn't mean that they don't do it too.

Reading that back it sounds really confusing lol then again...so are men.