I don't know your relationship or the wedding plans. I guess I would wonder if you really want to get married with the stress you are under. Also, if you are getting married can it be a simple, almost free affair? We were so broke, always have been I guess, we picked flowers, gave the Unitarian Minister 50 dollars, paid our marriage license and blood work.We brought champagne and fruit, crackers and cheese and drove home. Sometimes I think we make weddings, and funerals too pomp and circumstance and can do it without oweing everyone when we are done. Personal opinion here, you know how shy I am about sharing those right? Be well. As for cell phones, I don't know where you are but your current phone is probably good enough for a track phone or Verizon Pay as you go. I couldn't live without my cell phone but I hate it, cost a fortune for son and I.