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Marjan, there are several things that could be causing this behavior. The best thing you can do is let him go at his own pace. Take special care to notice any cues he may give about his sexuality or his nervousness about getting into a sexual relationship.
If it were me, the very next time we were alone together I would try to bring up what happened and just ask him to be honest with me: Am I going too fast? Is he not interested in a sexual relationship? Is he gay? He may simply be very much wanting a good friend to enjoy himself with, but NOT a sexual relationship. You need to clear that up between the two of you. Then you can decide if you want to continue the friendship or not.
There are many women and men that want to get to know a person pretty well, to become friends and see if they truly LIKE each other and have similiar interests, before bringing sex into the mix of a relationship. It's not a bad idea.
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