Hi ((((Vett)))) - I agree with what the others have said. YOU are not some mistake that you may have made. We all make mistakes, and you're right, we can't really know about the seriousness of the mistake, but we can definately know that the mistake, no matter how bad, is NOT YOU.

No mistake can define the wholeness and the core of who we are, otherwise, gosh help us all, ya know what I mean?

Hang on, Vett, and continue to allow us to be there for you in whatever way you find helpful, OK?

Warmest regards, as ever, Peanut

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