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Jan 12, 2010, 07:15 PM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: So Cal
Posts: 3,342
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Well...I would just tell her that you do not want to continue the relationship and that you would like her to stop calling you, block her from FB and let her know that you will not be responding to any calls, letters/notes, cards, etc...
But....in your post you said that you would "off and on" ignore her and that you would "at times" ignore her calls. I think this could be part of the issue. If you are ignoring her "at times" and then giving her attention at other times, she could be getting mixed signals from you which tells her to keep coming back for more.
If you're going to break the relationship, you need to set your boundaries and be consistent. If she still continues to bother you, just ignore her and don't respond. If she begins to push things to far, go to the Police and file a harassment complaint.
There are things you can do as well. In most states, if you tell her not to contact you by phone, and she calls you a certain number of times (usually 3-6 times) you can file a harassment charge based on that. You could also block her number from your phone, don't listen to her voicemails, don't read emails-just delete....stuff like this.
Ultimately though, if you don't stick to the boundaries...niether will she.
Good luck. 
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