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Old Jan 12, 2010, 08:06 PM
peacequest peacequest is offline
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Originally Posted by sharon123 View Post
I was married to a verbal abuser for 31 years and got a divorce. I did my "homework" in that i found the book that saved my life: The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans.

Psychopaths can fool even the most skilled therapists.

There was one sentence that helped me makemy decision:

"Try to let the side of you that is trying to save yourself.......win."

Love, Sharon.
Sharon, I'm going to get the book and read it very closely. Thirty-one years of being married as you were to a verbally abusive man is a long time to live in hell. I'm glad you did your homework and were able to save yourself. I need to follow your example and do the same for myself. The person inside me who still cares for me will stand up and save me. I don't want my family to find me dead one day because I didn't have the courage to walk away from a psychopath.

Love,
Peacequest